Underachieving by design

'Interesting. . . I see you have a degree in 'Under Achieving'. . .'Another day in Lent, another Gospel challenge. Today – underachieving by design! Yes, you are thinking, “what is she on about now?” You know me, sometimes I like to kid – even, perhaps especially, during Lent.

Achievement. Our world seems pretty much built around it. I worked in the media business for 27 years. My first job was as what was then called (does it even exist now?) “sales assistant.” What did I do? I was a glorified secretary, working for a salesperson. In 1980, this was more likely a man than a woman. If you did your job really well, you would be promoted to – wow, I can’t even remember the title. In was the over-glorified secretary I guess, because you worked for the sales manager, and you supervised the other sales assistants. Yes, I did get this job and I was an incredible disaster at it. At that age I did not have a clue about servant leadership, or that such a thing existed – I was just not ready for any of it.

Today’s Gospel is very clear, if you seek greatness, be willing to serve, not lord your greatness over people. In this passage from Matthew, the mother of the sons of Zebedee approaches Jesus and asks,  “Command that these two sons of mine sit, one at your right and the other at your left, in your kingdom.” Who does not understand that impulse? We want to do well, we want our kids to do well. That is pretty normal. Yet…

keep-calm-and-chill-out-i-got-thisJesus notes that they have no idea what they are asking for in his reply. He goes on to say that a difficult cup will be given to them, and asks if they can drink from it. Of course everyone says the usual “yes-of-course-I’ve-got-this!” Blame our enthusiasm or our ego, or some toxic cocktail of both, but we often imagine that we can do more than is possible. What is it that we’ve “got?” And more importantly, why do we want it?

51z0hhmBeeLWe are not meant to be underachievers. It is not a crime to want to do better in life. It is good to want to use all of our gifts and talents, be able to live healthy, stable lives, and pursue our dreams. What we do with our achievement is what matters. Are we grateful to God for giving us a good life? Do we put our time, talent and treasure at the service of God’s people? Do we use what we have to lift ourselves up at the expense of others? Do we create circumstances that keep others down? Remind them of our “greatness” and their lack of it? Are we willing to serve at the bottom in order to lead from the top?

It is easy to read this Gospel and get tied up in the power drama unfolding before us, and in Jesus’ replies, but we ignore the first portion at our own risk:
As Jesus was going up to Jerusalem,
he took the Twelve disciples aside by themselves,
and said to them on the way,
“Behold, we are going up to Jerusalem,
and the Son of Man will be handed over to the chief priests
and the scribes,
and they will condemn him to death,
and hand him over to the Gentiles
to be mocked and scourged and crucified,
and he will be raised on the third day.”

lenteasterwatercolormotion1hd_fullIt is not a mistake that this story about jostling for position, even if with the best of intentions, begins with Jesus clarity. He takes the Twelve aside, he says where they are going, he says what will happen – that he will be condemned to death and be crucified. And he adds that he will rise again. This sets it all up!

Every moment of our life, from our conception onward is set on an unswerving course to death. It is guaranteed, it is a great unifier of us all. We. Will. All. Die. Clear? Clear. Jesus, when talking to the sons of Zebedee and other disciples mentions the cup… this is about accepting death. In order to rise again, are we willing to serve along the way? Are we seeking greater roles in order to be of service, not of burden, to those around us? All those things are woven into the fabric of our life of rising and dying in Christ.

christ-in-gethsemane-298x300Our Lenten journey is happening whether we are ready for this or not. Face it, who is ready? Not most of us. Our worldly and often petty desires get in the way. Lent offers a chance to clear the cobwebs of desire and to remember who we are as followers of Jesus. And even He asked to have the cup pass in the end, even if for just a moment.

Achievement is not a bad thing. Underachieving should not be our goal. We must remember that the cup will be consumed at some point. Jesus asks if we are ready and willing – and Jesus will always be with us to help carry the crosses of our life that will lead to our own death. It is like the old joke, “everyone wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die!” How true, how true! And here we are, confronted with this. Can’t we just get a promotion and be happy?

69073Like the picture says, the tallest blade will be cut first. We are not the masters of our own achievement, and that currying for favor is often a recipe for disaster. How can we be who God calls us to be? Servants, leaders, and ultimately servants – mindful always of where we are headed and willing to go.


3 thoughts on “Underachieving by design

  1. Reblogged this on Griffins and Ginger Snaps and commented:
    What a wonderful thing for me to read this morning amidst the bustle of a school morning. It is something I struggle with daily, especially as a writer who shares her thoughts and deeds on a near daily basis. I wonder if I’m oversharing; if I sound as though I’m bragging when I am really excited about something I’ve done or said and want everyone to know about it. I like the likes. And I want to be liked. At what point, though do I go from well-meaning sharer to over-enthusiastic egotist? It’s a struggle to balance both impulses, and this post by my friend is a good reminder to slow down and rethink things.


  2. Servant leadership … When I was a 20-something career woman, I had no clue about this either. It’s 20 years later and I get it. When I look at the example of my father, who showed loved and leadership by serving others. That is what makes him a great man in my eyes, that he gave himself to others, not for glory or fame or money, but out of love, love of God, love of humanity, and compassion.

    When I started blogging nearly 10 years ago, it felt so important to me to get likes and followers, etc. I quickly forgot about the message I want to send, and it all became about pandering to an audience. I was a quick-silver, changing quickly, shedding layers, like an onion, trying to be what I thought others would like. Now, though, I see it’s not about any of that. It’s about listening to the voice of The Holy Spirit, about sharing and inspiring and simple authenticity.


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